Whatever it is, you’ll find the same faces at a given bar just about every night.This means, if you’re dating the bartender, you’ll be immersed in the inner circle.access to cocktails and complimentary shots at some of my favorite bars? In that time, I’ve learned some important lessons on dating in the industry and gotten my heart shaken like a daiquiri more times than I’d care to admit. It’s officially San Francisco’s unofficial drink of choice, and you’ll be swimming in the stuff if you date a bartender here (hope you like the bitter liqueur).But still, amidst the late hours and tipsy quarrels, I’ve realized that dating a bartender in San Francisco is just plain fun. Even if you’re looking for a low key, “I’ll just have one beer” kind of outing, you’re bound to get poured a shot or two (or seven) before the night is over.Maybe it’s because we all walk here, and we’re lazy and cheap (I mean, who wants to Uber for a beer you could get down the street?
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Few people possess the romantic insight of bartenders.
Each night, they bear witness to first encounters and clumsy pick-up lines, bickering couples and drunken banter.
Given his current profession, there are always going to be women, flirting and all of the stuff that would drive a woman insane. The one that sticks out and still bothers me is when one night I went to visit him and after a couple of drinks I decided to leave. Yes, you’re being the stereotypical insecure woman. Bartenders are often cute guys who work late hours and pick up women at last call.
Usually when I leave we kiss or do something sweet. I asked him what the problem was and finally he admitted that at the other end of the bar a woman he had hooked up with in the past was sitting amongst mutual friends and he didn’t want her to say anything. They are around drunk women all the time and can often get together with whomever they want, at will. This doesn’t mean that he will not eventually end up with a girlfriend.