You're two high-strung, passionate Fire signs who both like to be the Alpha dominant.As such, you'll need to toss the hot potato back and forth, submitting to the other's rule—at times through gritted teeth.Infidelity is a sin for you [but sometimes sin also gives pleasure].There is a fear of being deserted so you would not prefer any unstable relationship.For heaven’s sake, keep it light and bring your great sense of humor.
Admiration, sympathy and love are the keywords, which can make you close to man.
Neither one of you can be saddled with the emotional care and feeding of an adult baby. When your problems gain too much mental gravitas, it's time to move—literally.
Disperse your Martian angst and anger with lots of physical exertion. Try snowboarding, exotic bike tours, Costa Rican rainforest expeditions.
However, don't spiral into neurotic helplessness or analysis paralysis.
Nobody can beat a topic to death quite like you can—but that's what therapists are for, Aries.