Remember, that’s why she wrote it – because she wants you to get to know her, not because she wants to be told for the umpteenth time that she’s hot. NOT the thing you like the most, NOT the thing you find most attractive, NOT the thing you have in common. It might be how she doesn’t know how to program her Ti Vo. Yes, you think it’s cool that she also likes Robert De Niro movies and skiing in Vail. The sillier and more over-the-top your email, the funnier it’ll be.Men who treat women as unique and interesting individuals stand a much greater shot of receiving a response. The most interesting tidbit in her profile is the thing that sounds like it couldn’t have been written by anybody else in the world. Whatever it is, take her quirky tidbit and turn it into your pickup line. The most effective way to catch someone’s attention in an initial email is with fiction. Because the truth, as we’ve established, is boring. But does any of that sound like a good pickup line to you? A good joke doesn’t require an explanation – it’s obviously a joke.
Special Subject Line Crappy openers like ‘Hi there’ or ‘Hi Gorgeous’ are clichéd and most likely to get yawned over and forgotten quickly.This is why most guys give up entirely within just a few months.It’s incredibly frustrating and exhausting when you put hours into online dating and don’t hear back from the women you message.(I write these for my coaching clients all the time. (Mine was Hunger Games and I loved it.)In two weeks I’m going to Prague and on a river boat cruise. (Yes, this was a real email and Karen did receive a response.) One more thing: I believe in dating karma.When a man emails you and you’re not interested, don’t just hit Delete. Write him back, say thank you and wish him the best of luck in his search.